first shortlist all the possible guys you can fall in love with (these would be based on various social, intellectual, monetary constraints).
then strike off those that don't meet your choices of physique( some love apes, some giraffes)
then those that have already been baited (unless you are bitchy enough to chase somebody else's guy)
then you have a bunchful of guys left that can be baited. now each of these guys again would probably have a list similar as yours. and then if you are in his list, and he in yours you have a fair chance of falling in calculated love. then you bait and wait. well if you aren't then you gotta use other tricks and bribery.
tips on that are well beyond this post.
and then there's the other way... where you just plunge on gut feeling. where eyes meet and there are butterflies and fairy tales.
while most emotions can be broken down... how do we break love into sets of likes and dislikes? u either love somebody o you don't. like, dislike o are indifferent. but then how do you answer that one question... why do you love someone? (cos my life would be perfect with this one person... and in shambles without!) how do you break an abstract feeling into a logical choice?
then strike off those that don't meet your choices of physique( some love apes, some giraffes)
then those that have already been baited (unless you are bitchy enough to chase somebody else's guy)
then you have a bunchful of guys left that can be baited. now each of these guys again would probably have a list similar as yours. and then if you are in his list, and he in yours you have a fair chance of falling in calculated love. then you bait and wait. well if you aren't then you gotta use other tricks and bribery.
tips on that are well beyond this post.
and then there's the other way... where you just plunge on gut feeling. where eyes meet and there are butterflies and fairy tales.
while most emotions can be broken down... how do we break love into sets of likes and dislikes? u either love somebody o you don't. like, dislike o are indifferent. but then how do you answer that one question... why do you love someone? (cos my life would be perfect with this one person... and in shambles without!) how do you break an abstract feeling into a logical choice?
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It's a feeling which could never be defined by a single definition and never shall it be. It's a mistake, a beautiful one.
P.S. And here I just killed your humour ;)
aJ