jus thinkin drives u crazy at times. wats more scary losing someone or being driven insane by the thought of losing someone? why do we become more confused as we grow up... how do we define our wants n needs, or is it jus a blurred merge of one into the other... n we walk on it ...an obscure line that divides two nothings.
Many years ago, a male friend quoted, “a girl/woman in a relationship is somehow more attractive to other guys”. I didn’t really give a thought to it then, it could have been well merely his opinion. But what with guys liking girls who are already with someone else (and vice versa) I thought it wasn’t as simple as that. At a broader, abstract level, we as social creatures, seek conformity in our actions, a kind of acceptance. We are more willing to conform to something that has been already accepted. More than often we conform to social codes, rules, without questioning them because they already have some acceptance for them. We tend to believe that anything that has been accepted should be worth accepting. The other way of looking at it, and this one’s a personal favourite, is the Damsel-in-Distress Syndrome. Okay, there’s no such syndrome really, and I came up with the name, but it fits. So a couple of years ago, I had this friend who thought a girl was driving him nut...
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for I had a dream last night
the dream had me
with my friends & my dear ones
and suddenly i saw myself alone
and where had everyone gone?
i fear loosing my loved ones
i fear missing my friends
i fear loosing my emotions
i fear loosing my senses
i fear living alone
i fear my not being right
so i fear daylight!
read more: http://omsherryom.wordpress.com/2009/02/25/day-time-fears/